You see it all the time in apartment complexes, suburban neighborhoods, and condo communities. The front door opens. The dog shoots out like a rocket. The leash snaps tight. The owner hurries behind, half jogging, half laughing, calling, “Slow down, buddy. Slow down.”...
When Your Dog Kicks in His Sleep, Don’t Rush to Wake Him
You come home late. The house is dark except for the porch light behind you and the small glow from the microwave clock in the kitchen. You set your keys down as quietly as you can. Your shoes make the softest sound on the floor. Outside, the neighborhood is...
He Doesn’t Need the Bed—He Just Wants to Be Near You
Some dogs do not need to sleep in your bed. They do not need your pillow. They do not need the warmest spot under the comforter. They do not even need to be touching you. They just want to be close enough to know you are there. A friend of mine has a dog named Murphy,...
People Who Take Good Care of Their Dogs Usually Don’t Cut Corners in Life
You can tell a lot about a person by the way they take care of a dog. Not by how many cute pictures they post. Not by whether their dog has a holiday sweater, a personalized bandana, or a perfectly curated Instagram account with captions written in the dog’s voice....
When Choosing a Dog, Don’t Only Look at How Cute He Is
My friend paid eight thousand dollars for a French Bulldog. That sentence alone tells you almost everything about the kind of dog people fall in love with now. He was tiny, round-faced, compact, and perfect in the way Frenchies often look perfect in photos. Big eyes....
Your Dog Learned How to Live With You a Long Time Ago
You sit down for dinner, and your dog appears. Not loudly. Not always. Not every dog is a thief, a beggar, or a table shark with paws. Some are, of course. Some dogs hear a fork touch a plate and arrive with the urgency of emergency responders. But many dogs simply...
When Your Dog Puts a Paw on Your Hand While You’re Petting Him
There is a certain kind of evening that belongs to dog people. The house is finally quiet. The dinner dishes are in the sink, or at least close enough to count as dealt with. The TV is on low in the living room. Somewhere outside, a car rolls slowly down the street. A...
My dog won’t Eat During the Day
Morning begins with a familiar sound. Kibble pouring into a stainless-steel bowl. Not a dramatic sound. Not an exciting one, apparently. Just the dry little rattle of breakfast landing exactly where breakfast has landed every morning for years. Your dog hears it. Of...
Does Your Dog Yawn When You Scold Him?
Dogs yawn for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes they yawn because they just woke up from a nap in a patch of afternoon sun. Sometimes they yawn because they are curled on the couch after a long walk, one paw hanging off the edge, completely satisfied with life....
Do You Let Your Dog Sleep in Your Bed?
I used to be very sure about it. No dogs in the bed. Not because I did not love dogs. I did. Deeply. Embarrassingly. In the way only dog people understand, where you can spend twenty minutes looking at your dog’s face and still feel like you have not properly...
If I move forward, you’ll come too, right?
When Your Dog Keeps Looking Back on Walks, It Doesn’t Mean He Has No Mind of His Own Some dogs walk like they have a five-year plan. They step out of the front door with purpose. They know which direction they want to go, which mailbox must be inspected, which tree...
Where Does Your Dog Sit in the Car?
The day the dog gets the front passenger seat, the family hierarchy is never quite the same again. A friend of mine has a dog named Hank, a big shepherd mix with a serious face, a dramatic sigh, and the quiet confidence of someone who has never once paid rent but...







